Day One
| 8:00 a.m. | Registration/Check In |
| 8:30 |
Introduction to the Communication Programs Presentation - Background of COUPLE COMMUNICATION, 7 Ingredients of a Collaborative Marriage, Overview of 2007 Revision of COUPLE COMMUNICATION I, Instructional Competencies, Teaching/Learning Guidelines, Communication: Attitude and Behavior |
| 9:15 |
Styles of Communication Presentation - 4 Styles of Talking: The "Low" Road and the "High" Road Demonstration (Video) - Using the Styles Exercise Styles of Communication Nonverbally |
| 10:00 |
Communication and Issues Presentation - Types of Issues Exercise - Identifying Issues Presentation - Process Contracts |
| 10:15 | Break |
| 10:30 |
The Awareness Wheel - The Structure of an Issue & the Basis
for Clear Communication Presentation - The Practical Tool for Dealing with Issues Exercise - Expanding Awareness Using the Awareness Wheel Demonstration - Understanding an Issue (with Skills Mat) Presentation - 6 Talking Skills for Clearer Messages Demonstration - Instructor-Coaching Exercise - Practice Using the Awareness Wheel Skills Mat to Process an Issue (in Small Groups, with Coaching), Tracking a Talker |
| 12:30 | Lunch Break: Participants Make Own Arrangements |
| 1:30 |
The Listening Cycle - A Tool for Effective Listening Presentation - 5 Attentive Listening Skills & the Listening Cycle Demonstration - Attentive Listening (with Skills Floor Mat) and Coaching Exercise - Practice Using the Listening Cycle Skills Mat to Understand (in Small Groups, with Coaching) |
| 3:00 |
Conflict Patterns & Collaborative Process Presentation - Conflict Outcomes/Process, & Mapping Issues |
| 3:30 | Break |
| 3:45 | Demonstration (Video or Live) - Couple Applying 9-Step Process |
| 4:15 |
Course - Contracting with Couples Presentation - Couple Readiness & Commitment to Participate; Working with Highly Conflicted Couples |
| 4:30 |
Instructional Designs and Settings Presentation - Group or Conjoint Program Agendas |
| 4:45 |
Assessment and Theory of CC Program Presentation - THRIVE Collaborative Marriage Assessment Sphere; Individuation, Consideration, & Systemic Collaboration: Integration with Neuroscience and Attachment Theories |
| 5:30 | Day 1 of Workshop Ends |
Day Two
| 8:00 a.m. |
Communication Teaching/Coaching Cycle Presentation and Demonstrations - Tying Competencies Together and Coaching Methods |
| 8:45 |
Coaching Practice Exercise - Coaching Talking/Listening Skills in Mapping an Issue Process |
| 9:45 |
CORE COMMUNICATION for Individuals Presentation - Teaching the Same Skills and Processes to Singles - What the Differences Are |
| 10:15 | Break |
| 10:30 |
COUPLE COMMUNICATION II Presentation - Overview of COUPLE COMMUNICATION II and Prerequisites for Couples, The Relationship Map |
| 10:45 |
Collaborative Communication Presentation - Three Forces, Hot & Cold Responses, One Person Influence Exercise - Initiating & Responding to Change Presentation: - Parallels to CORE COMMUNICATION for Individuals Demonstration - Creating a Collaborative Operating System |
| 12:30 | Lunch Break: Participants Make Own Arrangements |
|
1:30 |
Managing My Anger Presentation - Typical Focus, Catalysts, & Expressions of Anger Exercise - A Situation of My Anger Presentation - Principles & Strategies for Managing Self in Anger Demonstration - Strategy Use Exercise - Creating & Walking Through a Strategy |
| 2:45 |
Responding to Partner's Anger Presentation - Escalating or De-escalating the Anger, Choice Points, Multiple Strategies Demonstration - Options for Responding to Expressions of Anger Exercise - Customizing Effective Responses |
| 3:30 | Break |
| 3:45 |
Relationship Phases/Aligning the Relationship Presentation - Introduction |
| 3:55 |
COUPLE COMMUNICATION II Instructional Designs Presentation - Options for Your Setting |
| 4:05 |
How to Offer Couple Communication Successfully in Your Setting Presentation - Ingredients of Successful Implementation |
| 4:20 |
Action Plan for Your Setting Exercise - Planning an Approach |
| 4:35 |
Program Certification Presentation - Certification Benefits & Requirements, & ICP Support |
| 4:50 | Evaluation of Workshop |
| 5:00 | Workshop Ends |