INSTRUCTOR TRAINING for
COUPLE COMMUNICATION I & II and CORE COMMUNICATION
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   Agenda for Instructor Training Workshop

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2-DAY WORKSHOP SCHEDULE

Day One

8:00 a.m. Registration/Check In
8:30 Introduction to the Communication Programs: COUPLE I & II and CORE COMMUNICATION
Presentation - Overview of CC I (with Preview Video), The Couple Packet, Goals, Ground Rules, Definition & 7 Dimensions of a Collaborative Marriage, Instructional Competencies
Communication: Attitude and Behavior
9:15 Styles of Communication
Presentation - 4 Styles of Talking: The "Low" Road and the "High" Road
Demonstration (Video) - Using the Styles
Exercise Styles of Communication Nonverbally
10:00 Communication and Issues
Presentation - Types of Issues
Exercise - Identifying Issues
Presentation - Process Contracts
10:15 Break
10:30 The Awareness Wheel - The Structure of an Issue & the Basis for Clear Communication
Presentation - The Practical Tool for Dealing with Issues
Exercise - Expanding Awareness Using the Awareness Wheel
Demonstration - Understanding an Issue (with Skills Mat)
12:00 Lunch Break: Participants Make Own Arrangements
1:00 Presentation - 6 Talking Skills for Clearer Messages
Demonstration - Instructor-Coaching
Exercise - Practice Using the Awareness Wheel Skills Mat to Process an Issue (in Small Groups, with Coaching), Tracking a Talker
1:45 The Listening Cycle - A Tool for Effective Listening
Presentation - 5 Attentive Listening Skills & the Listening Cycle
Demonstration - Attentive Listening (with Skills Floor Mat) and Coaching
Exercise - Practice Using the Listening Cycle Skills Mat to Understand (in Small Groups, with Coaching)
3:00 Conflict Patterns & Collaborative Process
Presentation - Conflict Outcomes/Process, & Mapping Issues
3:30 Break
3:45 Demonstration (Video or Live) - Couple Applying 9-Step Process
4:15 Instructional Designs and Settings
Presentation - Group or Conjoint Program Agendas
4:30 Course - Contracting with Couples
Presentation - Couple Readiness & Commitment to Participate; Working with Highly Conflicted Couples
4:45 Assessment and Theory of CC Program
Presentation - THRIVE Collaborative Marriage Assessment Sphere; Individuation, Consideration, & Systemic Collaboration: Integration with Neuroscience and Attachment Theories
5:30 Day 1 of Workshop Ends


Day Two

8:00 a.m. Communication Teaching/Coaching Cycle
Presentation and Demonstrations - Tying Competencies Together and Coaching Methods
8:45 Coaching Practice
Exercise - Coaching Talking/Listening Skills in Mapping an Issue Process
9:45 CORE COMMUNICATION for Individuals
Presentation - Teaching the Same Skills and Processes to Singles
10:15 Break
10:30

COUPLE COMMUNICATION II
Presentation - Overview of COUPLE COMMUNICATION II and Prerequisites for Couples

The Skills Zone: Collaborative Communication
Demonstration - Inside and Outside the Skills Zone
Exercise - How you leave the Skills Zone
Presentation - Staying Skilled: Leading & Following, Hot & Cold Responses, Stop & Shift

12:00 Lunch Break: Participants Make Own Arrangements
1:00

Demonstration - Creating a Collaborative Operating System

Managing My Anger
Presentation - Typical Focus, Catalysts, & Expressions of Anger
Exercise - A Situation of My Anger
Presentation - Principles & Processes for Managing Self in Anger
Demonstration - Process Use
Exercise - Re-Appraise a Situation of Anger

2:45 Responding to Partner's Anger
Presentation - Escalating or De-escalating the Anger, Choice Points, Staying Skilled
Demonstration - Options for Responding to Expressions of Anger
Exercise - Customizing Effective Responses
3:30 Break
3:45 Aligning the Relationship
Presentation - Overview
3:55 COUPLE COMMUNICATION II Instructional Designs
Presentation - Options for Your Setting
4:05 How to Offer Couple Communication Successfully in Your Setting
Presentation - Ingredients of Successful Implementation
4:20 Action Plan for Your Setting
Exercise - Planning an Approach
4:35 Program Certification
Presentation - Certification Benefits & Requirements, & ICP Support
4:50 Evaluation of Workshop
5:00 Workshop Ends


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